My low sugar challenge

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Sugar is a tricky thing. It’s in everything. It’s addicting. It tastes so damn yummy.
I also have WAY too much of it. Deep down I know my whole family does. It’s just. So. Hard.
I have been reading a few books that have given me some motivation to cut sugar. I will probably never be 100% sugar-free. Not happening. But I would love to reduce added sugar as much as possible and save the sweets for special occasions. The trouble with special occasions is there is always something special. Maybe we are exceptionally special people? Every time I turn around we are on a road trip, at a softball game (concession stand!) birthday party, wedding, date night, holiday, cookout, or bonfire… You get the idea.
Turns out I’m not the only one. I have read different statistics but they are all staggering. Americans recommended consumption is 25-40 grams of sugar per day (about 6 tablespoons) However most consume about 82 grams a day – double to triple what we should be consuming! One USDA statistic reported that Americans consume between 150 and 170 pounds of refined sugar in one year. *Hop back to the 1700’s. You had to be wealthy to eat sugar & even then you only got around 4 pounds per year. By 1900 it was around 90 pounds a year.
So – long story short, as time goes on, sugar consumption increases.
If you read labels to look for sugar, you better expand your vocab. There are a lot of names for sugar!

  • Most things ending in “ose” (Glucose, Fructose, Maltose, Sucrose)
  • Syrup (corn syrup, carbo syrup, malt syrup, rice syrup)
  • The more obvious – things labeled sugar (Date sugar, cane sugar, brown sugar, powdered sugar)

You get the idea. It may not always be easy to spot. I look at sugar on the nutritional label – check for regular and added sugar and check serving size. Sometimes it looks like there are 10g of sugar, but that is per serving and there are 2 servings in the package.
Now that I’ve gotten a little wiser, I have decided to eliminate as much added sugar as possible and avoid sweets for 7 days. One week. Should be a piece of…cake.
I found an app to help me. I had to pay for it but at this point I am weak and sugar is strong. It’s called Sugar Stop. You set your goal to what type of sugar you want to avoid, you choose the length of your challenge, and you invite friends to join you on this uphill journey. They have a diary, water tracking, and a FB support group. They also have hypnosis sessions to help you out. My favorite part is the Panic button. If you get desperate, hit the panic button and you can choose between a 10 min hypnosis on crushing your cravings, read about things you could eat instead and ways to distract yourself, or refresh with a glass of water. Because of course downing a good ole’ glass of H2O will surely make you not want that deliciously enticing, mouth-watering chocolate chip cookie. Hold please, let me wipe my drool.
So day 1 starts now. Wish me luck. I will be back after the 7 days to let you know how I did. Since I’m putting this in writing, I really don’t want to fail!
*Kolp Institutesugar

My Acupuncture experience

After years of thinking about it, I gave acupuncture a try. I found a highly recommended doctor in my little town and made an appointment. My 10-year-old was completely mind blown that I would voluntarily have needles stuck in my skin.
What is Acupuncture?
Acupuncture is a Chinese Medicine that uses very small needles to stimulate different points within the body to balance Qi (pronounced Chee) or energy. When energy is blocked, pain or sickness can occur. Acupuncture releases the blockage and helps the body heal naturally. Qi flows through the body in meridians. It was explained to me like water flowing through a river. Certain parts of the river may be more likely to collect or pool, so the water doesn’t flow as well. Acupuncture clears these areas so the energy flow is not blocked. Acupuncture is an ancient practice – dating back thousands and thousands of years. Anything that has been around that long has a good enough rep for me!
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My first 4 visits
The first appointment was a holistic evaluation -basically an in-depth consultation. The doctor asked me A LOT of questions, some of which surprised me. I was expecting physical questions but instead they were mostly emotional and relational. After talking for 30 minutes, he felt my pulse on my wrists. He did this for about 20 minutes, making notes as he felt different points. (Without a previous Ayurveda experience, I probably would have been freaked out by this.) He also had me stick out my tongue and made some notes about the appearance. After all of this, he explained a little bit about acupuncture and told me my primary energy is fire. This lines up with my Pitta dosha in Ayurveda. I believe he said my secondary energy was water, but it might have been air. Sometimes I focus so hard on what the doctor is saying that I don’t listen if that makes any sense.
A week later I went for my first treatment. After getting my weight and blood pressure the doctor came in to talk with me about anything new going on in my life since my last appointment. After a quick conversation, he explained the first treatment like this – think of your mind like a circle. Various emotions are constantly bouncing around the circle, sort of like a ping-pong ball. This particular treatment helps to slow down those bouncing emotions. So far I liked what I was hearing. I have my fair share of ping-pong balls in my circle.
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I undressed from the waist up, put on a gown, and laid face down on the table. For this treatment, all the needles went in my back along-side my spine, but he said each treatment will be different. A total of 12 needles were inserted. He gave me a warning before he poked, starting at the top and working his way down one side, then starting back at the top on the other side. The first few near the top were more noticeable than the ones near the bottom. There were a few that I couldn’t feel at all! At no time was it painful – just a quick poke and that was it.
I was doing great until half way down the right side of my back. I started to feel anxiety creep in & I got hot. I was on the verge of a full-blown panic attack, but thankfully that only lasted about 30 seconds and then I was fine.
Once they were all in I laid face down for about 30 minutes, with the nurse or doctor checking on me every 10 minutes, waiting for the redness around the needles to disappear. I felt very relaxed. One of the needles toward the top was noticeable, but otherwise I honestly forgot I had 12 needles sticking out of my back. Removing them was painless also.
When I got up, I felt like I had just woke up from a VERY long nap. I had a little bit of a headache which got worse as the day went on (I had not eaten anything yet) My eyes were having a hard time focusing. Super weird. I think everyone at the checkout desk might have been looking at me funny. Despite the weird sleepy/drunk feeling, I did feel calm. He suggested I sit in my car for a couple of minutes before I start driving to make sure I feel ok, then pay attention to how I feel the next few days. He said I would notice a very subtle difference, not a thunderbolt. Over the next few hours I felt very calm and a little tired. I took some Motrin to help with the headache and ate some lunch.
Two weeks later I went for my second visit, which was different from the first. He felt my pulse and said it was very irregular and jagged. This particular treatment would make it nice and smooth. I would notice myself being less reactive to things that happen around me. If something happened that bother me, I would recognize and let it go as opposed to over-reacting. This treatment involved 3 needles in each wrist. 2 went at the base of my hand on each side and one in the middle underneath my forearm. After he put the needles in, he twisted each one a little bit to grab the Qi (pronounced CHEE – another name for Energy) Weird. Totally weird sensation but it only lasted a few seconds. Once that was done I couldn’t feel a thing and I laid and relaxed for 15 minutes. I wanted desperately to take a picture of this. But it’s hard to hold your phone and take a selfie when you have needles sticking out of your wrists. So I didn’t. L After this treatment I felt like I had taken a nap, but didn’t have the weird eye focus problem. No headache. Felt great. We happened to be leaving for a road trip later that day. I packed a pillow in the truck and the next thing I knew – 45 minute had passed! It is common to be tired after acupuncture. From what I’ve read, the more tired you are afterward, the more your body needed the treatment? I have no idea where I read that but it was on the internet so it must be true… The benefit of this treatment lasted much longer & was much more noticeable than the first one. Expect for one slight freak out (which I’m totally blaming on the heat and a cranky 5-year-old) I felt calm, less reactive, and overall happier. My kids even made a comment about my good mood and it lasted for days.
My third visit was similar to the second.  It was meant to smooth out my pulse even more. He put a needle near each collarbone (LU 1 Central Treasury point) and again in my wrists, twisting after each one was inserted. He asked me to pay special attention to my reactions over the next few weeks. The Central Treasury is a lung meridian point. This can be used to treat breathing problems and help with blocked emotions and depression. Compared to my second treatment, this one seemed less effective. I wasn’t beaming rays of sunshine like I was last time. I would describe the next week as neutral – not super happy and not super sad.
My takeaways
*It’s painless and relaxing, despite having needles sticking out of my body (they are very thin)
*I find it fascinating to learn about the body’s energy, but it’s not for everyone. Have an open mind.
*Find a doc you like. Mine is a “regular’ doctor that incorporates alternative options which makes me feel like I’m getting the whole package. He is very thorough and takes his time which can be hard to find these days!
*Rest afterwards (I find I am always tired after my appointment) Maybe it’s a coincidence but my most effective visit so far was the appointment that I followed up with a long nap!
*Keep notes on how you feel after your appointments so you are better prepared for the next visit because they will want to know how you have been since your last visit.
I’m sure each experience will vary based on the practitioner, but this how it went for me and I am excited to see how I respond to the next three treatments. I will update in a later post!

A lesson on happiness vs. joy mixed with a little bit of Bessie

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What’s up with those happy people?

They are always smiling. When you ask how they are doing they have a bubbly answer. They never seem to have a bad day or be in a bad mood. Everything is good, no matter how bad! They are cheerful and positive. Rays of happiness ooze from their pores. Some days they are a wee bit annoying. Other days I want to be just like them! (Depends on MY mood of course)
It turns out these people are not happy. They are joyful. Happiness is circumstantial. Joy is not. Happiness comes and goes. Joy does not. Happiness is external. Joy is internal.

When you have joy, you live with a smile and a positive outlook because you have a firm foundation, knowing that no matter what happens, God is working things out for your good. You’re a child of God. Jesus died for you. You are loved. Your time here is short and then you go to heaven where everything is perfect forever and ever and ever. You are joyful!

Bad diagnosis? No big deal, still joyful.
Marriage on the rocks? That’s ok. Still smiling.
Lost your job? Eh, it will work out. Still joyful.

Easier said than done. Am I right?!?!

In my 38 years on this planet, I have only met 1 person that is joyful 100% of the time. One. That’s it. Numero Uno. I know a lot of people. You would think I could come up with a list of names. Nope. Just one.

Bessie.

It’s no coincidence I met Bessie on the day of my grandma’s funeral 8 years ago. After a stroke left her partially paralyzed, my grandma stayed in a nursing home for almost 2 years before she died. We knew it was coming but it was still hard because we were very close. My husband’s Aunt Debbie insisted I go see Bessie, who was also our neighbor at the time. She worked out of her home doing reflexology. After my first visit, I continued to see her about once a month, and over time it was hard NOT to notice how much Bessie smiled. She was ALWAYS happy. I have never heard a negative word come out of her mouth and she has never talked bad to me about anyone. She loves everyone. If you complain to her about something, she puts a positive spin on your problem. She is thankful for EVERYTHING. Seriously. I am pretty sure she has NEVER had a bad day. Ever. She doesn’t get bogged down with distractions. She is one of those people. She is JOYFUL.

So – what’s her secret? How does she do it? Well, oddly enough I have never asked her. But I also think when someone is that joyful, you don’t have to ask. It just shows. Their actions speak louder than their words.

She puts God first always. She does what He asks without hesitation or question, and spends a lot of time praying and reading the Bible and other books, believing that no matter what happens, He is in control. Bessie removes all unnecessary distractions and is always learning and growing. I know because I see it!

That’s it.

It doesn’t matter how many hours of sleep she gets or how much money she makes. It doesn’t matter if she is sick or if the weather is bad. She’s joyful all the time. ALL the time.

I’ve learned a lot from my visits with her and I always leave feeling completely recharged: physically, mentally, spiritually. That sounds so corny and I probably would have rolled my eyes if someone told me that years ago. But it’s true! Reflexology is one of my battery chargers. I have grown to love it and my mind, body & soul respond. More on that in another post…

I am getting the hang of this joy thing. I have happy days based on how things are going in my life. But I have an undercurrent of joy, some days more than others. I’m certainly no joy master or anything. For me, that would require A LOT of distraction extraction. Sigh. But I’m getting there. My hope for you is that you live a joyful life and let joy trump happiness. The more thankful you are, the harder it is to lose your joy. Pray that God will send a ‘Bessie’ into your life. Better yet, pray you will be a “Bessie” to someone else. Tell me about the ‘Bessie’ in your life!

Dear Lord,
Thank you for the constant promise of your love. We get so distracted with life and we lose our happiness when things happen that we don’t like. Help us to stay joyful through all of life’s ups and downs and to make you a priority every day.
Amen.

Isaiah 12:3 With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation

1 Peter 1:8 Though you have not seen him, you love him; even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy

John 15:11 These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

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